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Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?

10.06.2025 02:45

Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?

Two things, both primarily from my experience working as a bartender in a brothel and seeing the most extreme version of this first hand. You see there, when a guy comes in looking for a ‘date’ the only thing they really have to go on is looks.

Men like what they like, and it rarely follows much of a pattern once they get past the initial ‘if it has boobs and hair’ phase of development. Gay men are a little more predictable, kinda sorta, but not really. Once they move past the ‘back alley upright’ phase of fucking anything they really do diverge a lot in tastes.

Older men? No way to tell, really. What they thought was attractive was something even experienced hookers had no clue unless they were a repeat customer. It was really rather astonishing. Oh, there were a few weird exceptions. Old guys loved Cher. (Her working name.) If they used a walker, we called for her. No idea why. Oh, she wasn't hard on the eyes, but had been in the business for quite a while.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

About the only things that seem to be at all consistent are ‘healthy’ and ‘clean’. Otherwise, well,

Young men chase ‘pretty’ women. Under 25, they would pick the ‘Barbie doll’ almost guaranteed. Blond hair, tits, smile, pretty. She was. And they'd get what they picked, if they had the money.